Dirty Minds: How our Brains Influence Love, Sex, and Relationships

Author:
Kayt Sukel
Publisher:
Free Press
Reviewed in:
Winter 2011-12
Category:

Philosophers, theologians, artists, and boy bands have waxed poetic about the nature of love for centuries. But what does the brain have to say about the way we carry our hearts? What is love and why does it torture, delight, and transform us so? In the wake of a divorce, science writer and single mother Kayt Sukel made herself a guinea pig in the labs of some unusual love experts to find out. In each chapter of this edgy romp through the romantic brain, Sukel looks at a different aspect of love above the belt. What in your brain makes you love someone — or simply lust after them? (And is there really a difference?) Why do good girls like bad boys? Is monogamy practical? How thin is that line between love and hate? Do mothers have a stronger bond with their children than their fathers do? How do our childhood experiences affect our emotional control? Who is most at risk for love addiction? Publishers Weekly writes: “Sukel leaves no stone unturned as she delves into the complex, cerebral world of relationships … [her] background in psychology allows her to discuss highly technical topics in a way that will be accessible to a broad audience, including armchair scientists and sociology buffs.